{"id":2841,"date":"2013-11-04T18:21:53","date_gmt":"2013-11-04T17:21:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/?p=2841"},"modified":"2013-11-04T18:21:53","modified_gmt":"2013-11-04T17:21:53","slug":"nu-eller-aldrig","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/2013\/11\/04\/nu-eller-aldrig\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201dNu eller aldrig&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Where are you?<br \/>\n&#8211; Here.<br \/>\nWhat time is it?<br \/>\n&#8211; Now.<br \/>\nWhat are<br \/>\nyou?<br \/>\n&#8211; This moment.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/files\/2013\/11\/20131104-172232.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/files\/2013\/11\/20131104-172232.jpg\" alt=\"20131104-172232.jpg\" width=\"275\" height=\"441\" \/><\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>S\u00e5g en <em>favorit i repris<\/em> i helgen; <a href=\"http:\/\/thepiratebay.sx\/torrent\/3714919\/Peaceful.Warrior.2006.DVDRip.XviD.SWESUB-SWEpneT\" target=\"_blank\">Peaceful Warrior<\/a>.<br \/>\nDen p\u00e5minner om att livet st\u00e4ndigt\u00a0\u00e4r i utveckling och att man hela tiden m\u00e5ste rikta det i \u00f6nskad riktning.<\/p>\n<p>Det g\u00e5r att finna en <strong>njutning i allt<\/strong>, men f\u00f6r att ha\u00a0plats f\u00f6r den, m\u00e5ste man rensa bort alla tankar om vad som varit och komma skall, och bara <strong>vara <\/strong>i nuet.<br \/>\nAtt vara\u00a0det,\u00a0\u00e4r n\u00e5gonting man hela tiden\u00a0kan att\u00a0\u00f6va p\u00e5:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">There&#8217;s never nothing going on. There are no ordinary moments.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Det \u00e4r dock ett livsl\u00e5ngt arbete,\u00a0men livsviktigt, f\u00f6r det \u00e4r n\u00e4r vi inte \u00e4r <strong>med<\/strong>, som vi blir offer f\u00f6r omst\u00e4ndigheten &#8211;\u00a0tankarna.<\/p>\n<p>Det \u00e4r viktigt att p\u00e5minna sig sj\u00e4lv om att\u00a0inte ta\u00a0alla miljoner tankar p\u00e5 s\u00e5 stort allvar, att\u00a0inte &#8221;bry sig&#8221; som jag skrivit innan (<a href=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/2013\/10\/08\/om-du-bryr-dig-om-dig-sjalv-sluta-bry-dig\/\" target=\"_blank\">l\u00e4nk<\/a>),\u00a0utan att ha en <strong>distans<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00f6r\u00a0vi <strong>\u00e4r<\/strong> inte vad\u00a0vi t\u00e4nker.<\/p>\n<p>Vi <strong>tror<\/strong> att\u00a0vi \u00e4r det, vilket m\u00e5nga g\u00e5nger\u00a0f\u00e5r oss att <del>lida<\/del> p\u00e5 olika s\u00e4tt. Det \u00e4r dock bara man sj\u00e4lv som lider, ingen annan bryr sig eftersom de har sitt eget kors att b\u00e4ra.<\/p>\n<p>Alla tankar som inte \u00e4r &#8221;p\u00e5 sin plats&#8221;, dvs. som\u00a0<strong>inte<\/strong> handlar om nuet, skadar oss.<br \/>\nT\u00e4nk t.ex. att det \u00e4r l\u00f6rdag, och man f\u00e5r\u00a0tanken &#8221;<em>snart \u00e4r helgen slut,\u00a0jag vill inte det \ud83d\ude41<\/em>&#8221;\u00a0D\u00e5\u00a0g\u00e5r man miste om \u00f6gonblickets njutning, eftersom man l\u00e4mnar det och fokuserar p\u00e5 att det snart \u00e4r m\u00e5ndag\u00a0&#8211; p\u00e5 framtiden &#8211;\u00a0vilken fortfarande inte existerar.<\/p>\n<p>Ett annat s\u00e4tt att enkelt\u00a0f\u00f6rst\u00f6ra\u00a0<em>det som \u00e4r nu<\/em>,\u00a0\u00e4r att\u00a0<strong>j\u00e4mf\u00f6ra<\/strong> en sak med en annan, vilket vi \u00e4r\u00a0v\u00e4ldigt bra p\u00e5:<br \/>\n&#8221;Jag\u00a0ger och\u00a0ger, men f\u00e5r\u00a0ingenting tillbaks&#8230; <em>Grrr.<\/em>&#8221;\u00a0Ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att se\u00a0<strong>m\u00f6jligheten att kunna ge<\/strong>, som g\u00e5van.<br \/>\n&#8221;Hon har mer pengar \u00e4n mig&#8230;&#8221; Att se det man saknar, ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att se <strong>det man har<\/strong>.<br \/>\neller klassikern<br \/>\n&#8221;Det var b\u00e4ttre f\u00f6rr!&#8221; Saker och ting f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras konstant,\u00a0det \u00e4r aldrig n\u00e5gonting som st\u00e5r eller har st\u00e5tt\u00a0still i sin utveckling. Och det \u00e4r ju en god anledning till att <strong>njuta<\/strong> av stunden, s\u00e5 l\u00e4nge\u00a0den varar. <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/files\/2013\/10\/battreforr.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"377\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Where are you? &#8211; Here. What time is it? &#8211; Now. What are you? &#8211; This moment. S\u00e5g en favorit i repris i helgen; Peaceful Warrior. Den p\u00e5minner om att livet st\u00e4ndigt\u00a0\u00e4r i utveckling och att man hela tiden m\u00e5ste rikta det i \u00f6nskad riktning. Det g\u00e5r att finna en njutning i allt, men f\u00f6r &#8230; <a title=\"\u201dNu eller aldrig&#8221;\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/2013\/11\/04\/nu-eller-aldrig\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om \u201dNu eller aldrig&#8221;\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5927,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jag-gillar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5927"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2841"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2841\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/almqvistblogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}