{"id":1708,"date":"2014-12-30T16:45:59","date_gmt":"2014-12-30T15:45:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/?p=1708"},"modified":"2014-12-30T16:45:59","modified_gmt":"2014-12-30T15:45:59","slug":"en-lite-tanke-angaende-kontrollfreakar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/2014\/12\/30\/en-lite-tanke-angaende-kontrollfreakar\/","title":{"rendered":"En lite tanke ang\u00e5ende kontrollfreakar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/241020.510x0.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1709 alignleft\" alt=\"241020.510x0\" src=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/241020.510x0.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"156\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e5got jag <em>inte<\/em> har begripit hos vissa, detta beteende jag st\u00f6r mig p\u00e5 hos vissa, det finns hos s\u00e5na personer som st\u00e4ndigt f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker tjata till sig sin alldeles egen vilja &#8211; vare sig det g\u00e4ller v\u00e4nner, pojkv\u00e4nner, vad man ska g\u00f6ra, vad man tycker, eller vad man ska k\u00f6pa. Jag anser att detta \u00e4r ett kontrollfreaks &#8211; beteende, det \u00e4r allts\u00e5 s\u00e5na som hela tiden vill att andra ska g\u00f6ra och tycka exakt som de sj\u00e4lva enbart f\u00f6r att f\u00e5 b\u00e4ttre sj\u00e4lvk\u00e4nsla och sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rtroende. Tur jag har s\u00e5na bra v\u00e4nner, vi g\u00f6r vad fan vi vill, dejtar vem fan vi vill och k\u00f6per vad fan vi vill , <strong>UTAN<\/strong> att ens f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka \u00f6vertala varandra om att g\u00f6ra n\u00e5got annat. Jag anser att var och en best\u00e4mmer vad de k\u00f6per f\u00f6r sina pengar, jobbar med de dom vill, dejtar eller blir tillsammans med vem fan man vill, bloggar vars fan man vill. F\u00e5nigt att ens f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka \u00f6vertala n\u00e5gon till n\u00e5 de egentligen inte vill eller att folk ens beh\u00f6ver det kontrollbeg\u00e4ret \u00f6ver andra s\u00e5 de v\u00e4xer sj\u00e4lva. Helvete, snacka om kasst sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rtroende?! Tur man \u00e4r stadig p\u00e5 benen, s\u00e4ker p\u00e5 sig sj\u00e4lv och alltid g\u00e5r sin egen v\u00e4g, oavsett vad folk \u00e4n tycker och t\u00e4nker om ens val \ud83d\ude09 <strong><em>DET<\/em> <\/strong>kallar jag f\u00f6r sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rtroende!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/309828u6jg8vhkxj.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1711\" alt=\"309828u6jg8vhkxj\" src=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/309828u6jg8vhkxj.jpg\" width=\"588\" height=\"20\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/IMG_1072.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1710\" alt=\"IMG_1072\" src=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/IMG_1072.jpg\" width=\"1170\" height=\"780\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/309828u6jg8vhkxj.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"309828u6jg8vhkxj\" src=\"http:\/\/fames.se\/blondinas\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/10736\/2014\/12\/309828u6jg8vhkxj.jpg\" width=\"588\" height=\"20\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; N\u00e5got jag inte har begripit hos vissa, detta beteende jag st\u00f6r mig p\u00e5 hos vissa, det finns hos s\u00e5na personer som st\u00e4ndigt f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker tjata till sig sin alldeles egen vilja &#8211; vare sig det g\u00e4ller v\u00e4nner, pojkv\u00e4nner, vad man ska g\u00f6ra, vad man tycker, eller vad man ska k\u00f6pa. Jag anser att detta \u00e4r &#8230; <a title=\"En lite tanke ang\u00e5ende kontrollfreakar\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/2014\/12\/30\/en-lite-tanke-angaende-kontrollfreakar\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om En lite tanke ang\u00e5ende kontrollfreakar\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8260,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39,33,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1708","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-citatjust-saying","category-kanslor-tankar-funderingar","category-mitt-liv"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1708","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8260"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1708"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1708\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1708"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1708"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/blondina\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1708"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}