{"id":160,"date":"2013-05-01T12:14:41","date_gmt":"2013-05-01T10:14:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/castells\/?p=160"},"modified":"2013-04-30T21:24:11","modified_gmt":"2013-04-30T19:24:11","slug":"faux-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/castells\/2013\/05\/01\/faux-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Faux Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"

We all have them in our lives. Some more, some less. This is something I’ve always been aware about but just recently I realized I have quite a lot of them and it scares me. I’m not one who likes to talk bad about people and this post is not dedicated to one or a few specific persons, it’s more of a reminder of how important friendship is and how you can try to be a better friend. A real friend.<\/p>\n

There are different kinds of friends. First of all those great, REAL friends who you know are gonna be there for you no matter what. You don’t have to see them or talk to them every day to know this. They are the people that in some way have proven to be real.<\/p>\n

Then there are the friends that you really need to work on to maintain your friendship. Those who tend to slip away if you’re not seeing them very often or speak daily. You need to watch out with these people. If you realize you’re the only one who is trying to maintain that relation you should seriously consider if this person is really worth it.<\/p>\n

And then there are the fake ones. The people you have on Facebook ”just because”. Those people who doesn’t write or call or visit you during the entire year (except maybe on your birthday because they just happened to see it on Facebook) and then all of a sudden they’re your bestie because they need a favor.<\/p>\n

Do you have fake friends in your life? Are you doing anything to change that or do you just accept them? I’m gonna start making changes, are you?<\/p>\n

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Amigos falsos. Todos los tenemos en nuestras vidas. Algunos m\u00e1s, otros menos. Esto es algo que tengo muy claro hace tiempo pero recientemente me d\u00ed cuenta que tengo a muchos de ellos en mi vida y me da miedo. No me suele gustar hablar mal de gente y este post no est\u00e1 dedicado a una o unas personas espec\u00edficas, es mas un recordatorio de la importancia de las amistades y como puedes intentar ser un mejor amigo. Un amigo verdadero.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hay tres tipos de amigos. Primero tenemos a esos fant\u00e1sticos amigos REALES que sabes que van a estar ah\u00ed siempre. No hace falta que os ve\u00e1is o que habl\u00e9is todos los d\u00edas para saberlo. Estas son personas que de alguna manera te lo ha demostrado.<\/em><\/p>\n

Luego tenemos a los amigos con los que realmente necesitas trabajar para mantener la amistad. Esas personas que tienden a desparecer lentamente si no las ves a menudo o si habl\u00e1is a diario. Tienes que tener cuidado con estas personas. Si ves que tu eres el \u00fanico que intenta mantener viva esa amistad tienes que ponerte a pensar si esta persona realmente vale la pena.<\/em><\/p>\n

Y por ultimo tenemos a los amigos falsos. Los que tienes en el Facebook ”porque si”. Los que no te llaman, escriben o visitan en todo el a\u00f1o (excepto quizas por tu cumplea\u00f1os porque de casualidad lo vieron en el facebook) y luego de repente son tu mejor amigo porque necesitan un favor.<\/em><\/p>\n

Tienes amigos falsos en tu vida? Haces algo al respeto o simplemente acceptas que ah\u00ed estan? Yo voy a empezar a cambiar eso, y t\u00fa?<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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