{"id":3414,"date":"2010-12-09T17:23:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-09T16:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/2010\/12\/09\/tva-teorier\/"},"modified":"2010-12-09T17:23:00","modified_gmt":"2010-12-09T16:23:00","slug":"tva-teorier","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/2010\/12\/09\/tva-teorier\/","title":{"rendered":"Tv\u00e5 teorier."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">Det finns tv&aring; olika teorier ang&aring;ende f&ouml;rh&aring;llande-&#8221;f&ouml;rsiktiga&#8221; m&auml;n. I mitt fall &auml;r det mest mina tjekompisar som &auml;r f&ouml;h&aring;llander&auml;dda och tr&auml;ffar p&aring; killar som vill flytta ihop samma dag.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\"> Men nu pratar vi killar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">Teori 1: Killar kommer till en punkt d&aring; de k&auml;nner sig redo att binda sig. Den f&ouml;rsta tjej de tr&auml;ffar efter det blir den de gifter sig med.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">Teori 2: <\/span><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">N&auml;r en kille s&auml;ger att han inte vill ha ett f&ouml;rh&aring;llande menar han &#8221; jag vill inte ha ett f&ouml;rh&aring;llande <em><strong>med dig<\/strong><\/em>&#8221;. Om en kille blir k&auml;r &auml;r han alltid redo att binda sig.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\"><em>Binda sig<\/em> &auml;r ett hemskt uttryck tycker jag. Det &auml;r ju inte meningen att man ska k&auml;nna sig fastbunden i ett f&ouml;rh&aring;llande. Men vad tror ni? Handlar k&auml;rleken egentligen bara om timing eller &auml;r det tv&auml;rtom?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">N&auml;r jag b&ouml;rjade dejta M&aring;ns hade han precis gjort slut med sitt ex och haft ett ganska uppslitande uppbrott. P&aring; v&aring;r f&ouml;rsta &#8221;riktiga&#8221; dejt p&aring; East s&auml;ger han att han absolut inte vill ha ett nytt f&ouml;rh&aring;llande. Aprop&aring; ingenting n&auml;r vi v&auml;ntar p&aring; efterr&auml;tten. Tv&aring; veckor senare &auml;r han sur f&ouml;r att <em>jag <\/em>inte vill &auml;ndra min status fr&aring;n singel till &#8221;i ett f&ouml;rh&aring;llande&#8221; p&aring; FB. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">Samtidigt tror jag att vissa m&auml;nniskor &auml;r s&aring; r&auml;dda f&ouml;r k&auml;rleken att de st&ouml;ter bort n&aring;gon som kommer f&ouml;r n&auml;ra.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">Vilken av teorierna h&aring;ller ni p&aring;?<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: courier new,courier; font-size: small;\">&nbsp;<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.uniquejapan.com\/2009\/05\/konkatsu-marriage-hunting\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-351\" title=\"wedding\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.uniquejapan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/wedding.jpg\" alt=\"wedding\" width=\"620\" height=\"228\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Det finns tv&aring; olika teorier ang&aring;ende f&ouml;rh&aring;llande-&#8221;f&ouml;rsiktiga&#8221; m&auml;n. I mitt fall &auml;r det mest mina tjekompisar som &auml;r f&ouml;h&aring;llander&auml;dda och tr&auml;ffar p&aring; killar som vill flytta ihop samma dag. Men nu pratar vi killar. &nbsp; Teori 1: Killar kommer till en punkt d&aring; de k&auml;nner sig redo att binda sig. Den f&ouml;rsta tjej de tr&auml;ffar &#8230; <a title=\"Tv\u00e5 teorier.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/2010\/12\/09\/tva-teorier\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om Tv\u00e5 teorier.\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1767,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-okategoriserad"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1767"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3414"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3414\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/ellenf\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}