{"id":562,"date":"2011-11-25T22:01:00","date_gmt":"2011-11-25T21:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/emelieehn\/2011\/11\/25\/no-more-drama\/"},"modified":"2011-11-25T22:01:00","modified_gmt":"2011-11-25T21:01:00","slug":"no-more-drama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/emelieehn\/2011\/11\/25\/no-more-drama\/","title":{"rendered":"No More Drama"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">I&#8217;ll be honest. I&#8217;m not a huge fan of the &#8221;politics&#8221; within the animal welfare&nbsp;community.&nbsp;Well, really,&nbsp;I&#8217;d prefer to just avoid politics altogether.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">If you aren&#8217;t that heavily involved in animal rescue or advocacy, then you may not realize<em>&nbsp;just how political<\/em>&nbsp;things can get. But trust me&#8230; even within a charitable cause&nbsp;such as&nbsp;this, there are&nbsp;distinct, opposing sides&#8230; with&nbsp;<em>very<\/em>&nbsp;different opinions on the problem, its cause(s), and the solution(s).<\/span><\/div>\n<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">And sadly&#8230; it seems that<em>&nbsp;no one<\/em>&nbsp;is willing&nbsp;to meet in the middle.&nbsp;But I&#8217;d really like to change that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Before I go any further, let me just say this: controversy, arguments, and drama&nbsp;are not my goals. While I&#8217;m sure that today&#8217;s post will&nbsp;somehow drive these things, that&#8217;s certainly not my mission, and I really want no part in it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">I only decided to write about this topic&nbsp;today, because I&#8217;m tired of the endless&nbsp;fighting between so many members of the animal community. I&#8217;ve&nbsp;witnessed so much of it lately, and it&#8217;s&nbsp;just so&nbsp;counterproductive.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">For the most part, I try to stay out of the drama as much as possible&#8230; I&#8217;d rather&nbsp;focus on doing the right thing and making a difference.&nbsp;But&nbsp;obviously,&nbsp;I care about this cause, so I feel the need to&nbsp;take a stand against&nbsp;all of this useless, back-and-forth attacking that&#8217;s been&nbsp;going around. So, here goes&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">This negative behavior&nbsp;<em>only hurts<\/em>&nbsp;my cause<em>&nbsp;&#8211;OUR cause.&nbsp;<\/em>It&#8217;s nothing more than a distraction from the real issues, and honestly, it&nbsp;only&nbsp;hinders&nbsp;our ability to take the positive actions needed&nbsp;to resolve those issues. And further&#8230; let&#8217;s just be honest&#8230; people already think that we &#8221;animal freaks&#8221; are crazy enough as it is.<em>Should we really prove them right??<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">No matter what you believe, or which &#8221;side&#8221; you&#8217;re on&#8230; if you truly care about the animals, then you should care to end their suffering.&nbsp;<em>Period.&nbsp;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">So&#8230; even when you don&#8217;t completely agree with&nbsp;the way that another person\/group does things&#8230; if they&#8217;re&nbsp;trying to make things better for animals, then you should at least be thankful for that! Maybe they don&#8217;t always do things &#8221;your way,&#8221; but that doesn&#8217;t mean that&nbsp;they aren&#8217;t doing the very best they can with what they have. &#8221;Your way&#8221; may not work for everyone&#8230; and your way isn&#8217;t the ONLY way.&nbsp;<em>I don&#8217;t care who you are<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">But that&#8217;s the problem here.&nbsp;Too many people stand firmly at one extreme or the other, and&nbsp;so few are actually willing to acknowledge that their way&nbsp;<em>isn&#8217;t<\/em>&nbsp;<em>the only way<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">A lot of people have asked&nbsp;for my opinions&nbsp;on the following&nbsp;questions: What is the problem? What is the solution?&nbsp;Well, in short, here&#8217;s my general view:&nbsp;<strong><em>There isn&#8217;t just one problem to blame. There isn&#8217;t just one solution to claim. And there isn&#8217;t just one way to win this game.<\/em>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Obviously, I could get much more specific&nbsp;on each of those topics.&nbsp;But no matter what, I&#8217;d never claim that my views represent the animal community as a whole. I&#8217;d never claim that my view of any issue is&nbsp;<em>the only way&nbsp;<\/em>that issue can be viewed. I&#8217;d never&nbsp;state that my perception of the solution is&nbsp;<em>the only perception<\/em>&nbsp;that matters.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">If that were true&#8230; if I really had&nbsp;<em>all<\/em>&nbsp;the answers, then I can promise you this much:&nbsp;<em>I&#8217;d have this&nbsp;whole thing&nbsp;fixed&#8230; by&nbsp;noon tomorrow. Just in time for lunch.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">And if you had all the answers,&nbsp;<em>wouldn&#8217;t you do the same?&nbsp;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><em>That&#8217;s why we need each other<\/em>.&nbsp;That&#8217;s why I won&#8217;t&nbsp;simply dismiss everyone&nbsp;else&#8217;s input, and only value&nbsp;my own.&nbsp;Because regardless of what I believe to be true, I&#8217;m not trying to solve this problem alone.&nbsp;<em>I want&nbsp;help. I&nbsp;need help<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">I try my very best to see all sides.&nbsp;I try to acknowledge&nbsp;<em>each and every<\/em>&nbsp;factor that&nbsp;contributes toward the&nbsp;problem,&nbsp;while appreciating&nbsp;<em>each and every<\/em>&nbsp;effort that&nbsp;contributes toward the solution.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">That&#8217;s why I&nbsp;refuse to&nbsp;take the approach of blaming&nbsp;<em>just one group<\/em>&nbsp;for this entire animal crisis, because common sense tells me that&nbsp;<em>multiple parties<\/em>&nbsp;must be responsible for a problem&nbsp;<em>this large.&nbsp;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">If you ask me who&#8217;s to blame, here&#8217;s my opinion: Is society to blame?&nbsp;<em>Yep, society absolutely plays a very big role in the animal crisis.&nbsp;<\/em>Are the shelters to blame?&nbsp;<em>Yep, the shelters have a very&nbsp;significant&nbsp;role as well.<\/em>Are breeders to blame?&nbsp;<em>Yep,&nbsp;breeders also provide a nice-big-honking contribution to this massive, heartbreaking problem.&nbsp;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">I try to acknowledge each component, because&nbsp;the problem can&#8217;t be solved unless&nbsp;<em>all<\/em>&nbsp;of the underlying issues are considered and remedied.&nbsp;A problem this complex just can&#8217;t be simplified into one&nbsp;single contributing factor.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">For example, simply blaming the shelters&#8230; well,&nbsp;<em>that&#8217;ll get you nowhere fast<\/em>. Sure, there are some terrible shelters out there, but it&#8217;s very easy to&nbsp;simply&nbsp;judge and blame the shelters for their actions, when you have such&nbsp;little understanding of the unique struggles they face&#8230; or why they face those things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">But here&#8217;s the real kicker: when you&nbsp;boldly (and in my opinion, wrongfully) blame only the shelters&nbsp;(or anyone) for the&nbsp;<em>entire<\/em>&nbsp;problem, then you can be certain&nbsp;of at least one thing:&nbsp;those shelters&nbsp;won&#8217;t be willing to hear<em>anything else<\/em>&nbsp;that&nbsp;you have to say. And there went your chance&#8230;&nbsp;<em>to actually help them<\/em>&nbsp;<em>fix it.<\/em>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">The same goes for the solution, or should I say solutions (plural). There are&nbsp;<em>many different ways<\/em>&nbsp;to reach the ultimate goal here, and&nbsp;no single&nbsp;component&nbsp;can possibly&nbsp;fix everything.&nbsp;But each and every positive&nbsp;factor&nbsp;can play&nbsp;a&nbsp;necessary and critical&nbsp;role in getting us<em>&nbsp;that much closer<\/em>&nbsp;to (what should be) a shared goal. And&nbsp;<em>each and every<\/em>&nbsp;<em>one of those factors<\/em>&nbsp;<em>is needed,<\/em>&nbsp;in order to truly make a difference.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Another&nbsp;example: some people will argue that spay\/neuter isn&#8217;t necessary in reaching the goal of ending euthanasia. Well, in my opinion, it&#8217;s senseless and reckless to deny the importance of this critical&nbsp;piece of the solution. But regardless, do I believe that spay\/neuter&nbsp;<em>the only&nbsp;<\/em>solution? Of course not. There are so many other factors needed here: education, legislation, regulation, and so forth.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">We all need to&nbsp;acknowledge and accept that there are&nbsp;many&nbsp;causes for this problem, and then work toward the achievable solutions&#8230;&nbsp;<em>together<\/em>. There isn&#8217;t&nbsp;<em>just one problem<\/em>. There isn&#8217;t&nbsp;<em>just one solution<\/em>. There isn&#8217;t&nbsp;<em>just one person<\/em>&nbsp;who has all the answers.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">I think it&#8217;s important that we all try to step outside of our own thoughts and feelings&#8230; and attempt to meet somewhere in the middle. This all-or-nothing attitude just isn&#8217;t benefiting our cause in any way. I certainly don&#8217;t have all the answers. Neither do you. That&#8217;s why we need each other. That&#8217;s why all of these animals&#8230;<em>need ALL of us.&nbsp;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><em>One final note, there&#8217;s a&nbsp;BIG difference between choosing to respectfully accept differences of opinion&#8230; and quietly accepting injustice. If any organization is NOT actively helping to end&nbsp;the problem&nbsp;or contribute toward the solution, then no&#8211; that&#8217;s not okay, and&nbsp;NONE of us should stand for it.&nbsp;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><em>Emelie Ehn<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ll be honest. I&#8217;m not a huge fan of the &#8221;politics&#8221; within the animal welfare&nbsp;community.&nbsp;Well, really,&nbsp;I&#8217;d prefer to just avoid politics altogether. If you aren&#8217;t that heavily involved in animal rescue or advocacy, then you may not realize&nbsp;just how political&nbsp;things can get. 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