{"id":351,"date":"2015-04-06T22:43:01","date_gmt":"2015-04-06T20:43:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/?p=351"},"modified":"2015-04-07T22:33:03","modified_gmt":"2015-04-07T20:33:03","slug":"hur-det-va-for-mig-att-komma-ut-som-transexuell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/2015\/04\/06\/hur-det-va-for-mig-att-komma-ut-som-transexuell\/","title":{"rendered":"Hur det va f\u00f6r mig att komma ut!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jag har ju egentligen inte beh\u00f6vt komma ut f\u00f6r n\u00e5gon eftersom jag alltid varit s\u00e5 som jag \u00e4r idag. Jag va redan en pojke n\u00e4r jag va liten. Alla visste det d\u00e5. Ingen har fr\u00e5gat n\u00e5got, jag har aldrig beh\u00f6vt f\u00f6rklara mig och ta upp diskussion med familjen. Min mamma m\u00e4rkte att jag ville vara en kille och att jag gillade tjejer. Hon sa ju inte direkt n\u00e5got n\u00e4r jag drog hem tjejer p\u00e5 den tiden, vilket \u00e4r sk\u00f6nt. Jag vet att just den h\u00e4r biten \u00e4r ibland det jobbigaste f\u00f6r dom flesta. Den va det inte det f\u00f6r mig tack och lov. Man f\u00e5r ofta h\u00f6ra att det bara \u00e4r en fas man g\u00e5r igenom men det \u00e4r det inte. Att f\u00f6rst inse sj\u00e4lv att man \u00e4r transsexuell \u00e4r viktigare \u00e4n att alla andra vet det. Det kan ta tid f\u00f6r vissa medans andra \u00e4r sj\u00e4lvklara i tidigare stadium. V\u00e5ga f\u00f6lj ditt hj\u00e4rta och v\u00e5ga va dig sj\u00e4lv f\u00f6r din egen skull! Ingen annans..<br \/>\nJag best\u00e4mde mig f\u00f6r n\u00e5t \u00e5r sen att jag inte t\u00e4nkte leva med den kroppen jag \u00e4r fast i. Det va mitt livs viktigaste och st\u00f6rsta beslut.. Att g\u00f6ra min utredning och f\u00e5 bekr\u00e4ftat att jag \u00e4r transsexuell. Det betyder egentligen att jag f\u00f6ddes i fel kropp, min hj\u00e4rna och min kropp s\u00e4ger tv\u00e5 olika saker. Jag k\u00e4nner mig som en kille till 100% fast jag \u00e4r f\u00f6dd i en kvinnas kropp. Dom enda som f\u00f6rst\u00e5r hur den h\u00e4r k\u00e4nslan k\u00e4nns \u00e4r andra transpersoner. Hur mycket vi \u00e4n s\u00e4ger till er och f\u00f6rklarar s\u00e5 \u00e4r det saker som ni aldrig kommer att f\u00f6rst\u00e5. Mina n\u00e4ra och k\u00e4ra \u00e4r glada f\u00f6r min skull att jag \u00e4ntligen blir jag. Och mina v\u00e4nner ocks\u00e5! Dom s\u00e4ger bara \u00e4ntligen Alex och s\u00e5 tror dom p\u00e5 allting jag g\u00f6r. Jag har k\u00f6rt mitt race sj\u00e4lv hela v\u00e4gen, men n\u00e4r jag b\u00f6rjat ber\u00e4tta och delat med mig s\u00e5 har jag f\u00e5tt v\u00e4rldens varmaste respons och st\u00f6d. Det \u00e4r tufft att g\u00e5 igenom en omvandling helt sj\u00e4lv. Man beh\u00f6ver prata ut och jag \u00e4r glad att jag har familj och v\u00e4nner som verkligen lyssnar och finns d\u00e4r!<\/p>\n<p>HOW IT WAS TO ME TO COME OUT!!<br \/>\nI have not really had to come out for someone because I&#8217;ve always been the way I am today. I was already a boy when I was little. Everyone knew it then. No one has asked anything, I&#8217;ve never had to explain myself and take up discussion with the family. My mother realized that I wanted to be a guy and I liked girls. She didn&#8217;t exactly say something when I came home with girls at the time, which is nice. I know that this particular bit is sometimes the hardest for most people. But it wasen&#8217;t for my there for am thankfully. To first realize yourself that you are transsexual is more important than everyone else knows it. It may take time for some people and others are more clear in the earlier stage. Dare to follow your heart and dare for yourself for your own sake! No one else ..<br \/>\nI decided one year ago that I was not going to live with the body I am stuck in. This was my life&#8217;s most important and biggest decisions ever.. To do my investigation and confirm that I am transsexual. It really means that I was born in the wrong body, my brain and my body says two different things. I feel like a guy to 100% even though I was born in a woman&#8217;s body. The only ones who understands how this feeling feels is other transgenders. However much we say to you and explains it&#8217;s things that you will never understand. My loved ones are happy for me that I finally can be me. And my friends too! They say just finally Alex they support me in everything I do. I have run my race self all the way, but when I started to tell and share with me I have been resered the world&#8217;s warmest response and support. It&#8217;s tough to go through a transformation all by yourself. You need to speak out and I&#8217;m glad I have family and friends who really listens and always stand up for me!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jag har ju egentligen inte beh\u00f6vt komma ut f\u00f6r n\u00e5gon eftersom jag alltid varit s\u00e5 som jag \u00e4r idag. Jag va redan en pojke n\u00e4r jag va liten. Alla visste det d\u00e5. Ingen har fr\u00e5gat n\u00e5got, jag har aldrig beh\u00f6vt f\u00f6rklara mig och ta upp diskussion med familjen. Min mamma m\u00e4rkte att jag ville vara &#8230; <a title=\"Hur det va f\u00f6r mig att komma ut!\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/2015\/04\/06\/hur-det-va-for-mig-att-komma-ut-som-transexuell\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om Hur det va f\u00f6r mig att komma ut!\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11151,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-351","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-my-transition"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/351","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11151"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=351"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/351\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=351"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=351"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=351"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}