{"id":528,"date":"2015-04-08T00:50:49","date_gmt":"2015-04-07T22:50:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/?p=528"},"modified":"2015-04-10T11:21:17","modified_gmt":"2015-04-10T09:21:17","slug":"killarnas-eller-tjejernas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/2015\/04\/08\/killarnas-eller-tjejernas\/","title":{"rendered":"Killarnas eller tjejernas?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hur \u00e4r det egentligen med killarnas och tjejernas omkl\u00e4dningsrum, toalett osv?
\nDet h\u00e4r \u00e4r ett problem f\u00f6r alla oss transpersoner. Man har sv\u00e5rt att k\u00e4nna sig bekv\u00e4m p\u00e5 offentliga platser. Man f\u00e5r m\u00e5nga blickar p\u00e5 sig och man blir ofta ifr\u00e5gasatt. Jag har alltid g\u00e5tt in p\u00e5 tjejernas omkl\u00e4dningsrum p\u00e5 gymmet eller s\u00e5 har jag bytt om p\u00e5 en toalett i n\u00e4rheten. Men jag kommer oftast ombytt och klar till gymmet och duschar osv n\u00e4r jag kommer hem, det k\u00e4nns mest bekv\u00e4mt. N\u00e4r det kommer till offentliga toaletter har jag g\u00e5tt in p\u00e5 tjejernas och killarnas med variation beroende p\u00e5 omst\u00e4ndigheterna. Passerar jag som en kille idag, kan jag g\u00e5 in p\u00e5 killarnas? Ibland \u00e4r det sv\u00e5rt n\u00e4r det bara finns pissoarer och killarnas toaletter \u00e4r oftast s\u00e5 j\u00e4vla \u00e4ckliga att man inte ens vill g\u00e5 in d\u00e4r.. Exempel ute p\u00e5 korgen har jag st\u00e5tt i k\u00f6n med mina tjejkompisar p\u00e5 v\u00e4g in till tjej toan och s\u00e5 blir det alltid ett j\u00e4vla hall\u00e5 n\u00e4r man v\u00e4l kommer in. D\u00e5 f\u00e5r man st\u00e5 och f\u00f6rklara sig, kolla jag \u00e4r en tjej jag har br\u00f6st \u00e4r det n\u00e5t problem.. Ibland har vakterna kommit och ryckt tag i mig s\u00e5 jag har f\u00e5tt visa l\u00e4gg och allt m\u00f6jligt f\u00f6r att \u00f6vertyga dom om att jag \u00e4r en tjej. Vill jag g\u00e5 in p\u00e5 tjejernas toalett s\u00e5 har jag all r\u00e4tt att g\u00f6ra det.. Men! Efter min operation, \u00e4r det bara killarnas som g\u00e4ller p\u00e5 alla offentliga platser! Jag har inget att komma med nu, jag har inget l\u00e4ngre att g\u00f6ra p\u00e5 tjejernas offentliga platser. Jag passerar som kille nu och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r har jag tagit steget att byta omkl\u00e4dningsrum p\u00e5 gymmet ocks\u00e5. Det va ett stort steg och det k\u00e4ndes v\u00e4ldigt stelt i b\u00f6rjan. Jag hade tankar om att jag skulle byta gym och b\u00f6rja om p\u00e5 ny kula. Folk kanske reagerade f\u00f6rsta veckan men nu \u00e4r det ingen bryr sig l\u00e4ngre och det \u00e4r j\u00e4vligt sk\u00f6nt. Jag har inte f\u00e5tt h\u00f6ra n\u00e5gon kommentar eller s\u00e5 heller. Jag b\u00f6rjar bli van nu.. \u00c4ven fast jag kan tycka att det oftast \u00e4r trevligare och fr\u00e4schare att va p\u00e5 tjejernas sida. Det va m\u00e5nga som stannade till en extra g\u00e5ng och analyserade mig n\u00e4r jag va p\u00e5 tjejernas. Jag fick ofta f\u00f6rklara mig och s\u00e4ga du beh\u00f6ver inte va orolig jag \u00e4r en tjej och jag har inte g\u00e5tt in fel. S\u00e5 j\u00e4vla sk\u00f6nt att slippa f\u00f6rklara sig nu! Jag kan f\u00f6rst\u00e5 att det varit obekv\u00e4mt f\u00f6r vissa runt om mig det har det varit f\u00f6r mig ocks\u00e5. N\u00e4r jag jobbade som snickare s\u00e5 fr\u00e5gade dom mig om jag ville ha en egen bod att byta om i men det k\u00e4ndes lite overkill. Jag sa bara f\u00f6r mig \u00e4r det helt lugnt att byta om med killarna jag jobbar med s\u00e5 l\u00e4nge inte dom tar illa upp s\u00e5klart. Det va det ingen som gjorde s\u00e5 vi bytte om i samma rum. Jag vill inte ha n\u00e5gon ”s\u00e4rbehandling” jag \u00e4r s\u00e5 \u00f6ppen som person av mig att jag sm\u00e4lter in och anpassar med efter omst\u00e4ndigheterna. Jag \u00e4r s\u00e5 glad att det bara finns ett alternativ nu.. The gents room! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

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LADIES OR THE GENTS?
\nHow is it with boys ’and girls’ locker rooms, restrooms, etc.?
\nThis is a problem for all of us transgender. It is hard to feel comfortable in public places. You get many looks at itself and it is often questioned. I have always gone into the girls’ locker room at the gym or so I have changed if on a toilet nearby. But I will usually changed and clear to the gym and showers etc when I get home, it feels most comfortable. When it comes to public toilets, I entered the girls’ and boys with variation depending on the circumstances. Do O pass as a guy today, can I go into the boys? Sometimes it is difficult when there is only urinals and boys’ toilets are usually so fucking disgusting that you do not even want to go in there .. Example out in the clubs I have stood in the queue with my girlfriends going into the girl’s room and so there will always be a fucking hello once you arrive. Then you stand and explain himself, check out I’m a girl, I have breasts is there a problem .. Sometimes the guards came and snatched hold of me so I’ve got to show my legetimation and add everything possible to convince them that I’m a girl . I want to go into the girls’ toilet so I have every right to do it .. But! After my surgery, it’s just the guys that apply to all public places! I do not have to come by now, I have nothing more to do on the girls’ public places. I pass as a guy now and I have therefore taken the step to change locker rooms at the gym too. It va a big step and it felt very stiff in the beginning. I had thought that I would replace the gym and start fresh. People may react first week but now it no one cares anymore and it’s damn good. I have not heard any comment or so either. I’m getting used to it now .. Even though I may think that it is usually nicer and fresher being on the girls’ side. There was many who stayed an extra time and analyzed to me when I was on the girls. I often had to explain myself and say you do not need to be worried I’m a girl and I have not gone into the wrong room. So damn nice not having to explain myself now! I can understand that it would have been uncomfortable for some around me it has been for me too. When I worked as a carpenter they asked me if I wanted to have my own booth to change clothes in but it felt a bit overkill. I just said to me it is completely ok change clothes with the guys as long as they do not take offense, of course. No one did so we switched on in the same room. I do not want any ”special treatment” I’m so open as a person and I blend in and adapt myself to the circumstances. I am so happy that there is only one option now .. The gents room! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hur \u00e4r det egentligen med killarnas och tjejernas omkl\u00e4dningsrum, toalett osv? Det h\u00e4r \u00e4r ett problem f\u00f6r alla oss transpersoner. Man har sv\u00e5rt att k\u00e4nna sig bekv\u00e4m p\u00e5 offentliga platser. Man f\u00e5r m\u00e5nga blickar p\u00e5 sig och man blir ofta ifr\u00e5gasatt. Jag har alltid g\u00e5tt in p\u00e5 tjejernas omkl\u00e4dningsrum p\u00e5 gymmet eller s\u00e5 har jag … L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11151,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-528","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-my-transition"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11151"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=528"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=528"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=528"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/finnsbara1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=528"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}