{"id":1350,"date":"2015-01-22T15:49:00","date_gmt":"2015-01-22T14:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/?p=1350"},"modified":"2015-01-22T15:54:20","modified_gmt":"2015-01-22T14:54:20","slug":"det-ar-aldrig-bara-ord","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/2015\/01\/22\/det-ar-aldrig-bara-ord\/","title":{"rendered":"Det \u00e4r aldrig bara ord"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8221;Det \u00e4r aldrig bara ord&#8221;, sa hon.<\/p>\n<p>&#8221;Jo, jag tror faktiskt det&#8221;, insisterade jag.<\/p>\n<p>&#8221;Tro mig, det \u00e4r <strong>aldrig<\/strong> bara ord.&#8221; Hennes blick satte punkt f\u00f6r fortsatta\u00a0inv\u00e4ndningar.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Min v\u00e4n har en f\u00f6rm\u00e5ga att se bortom det som s\u00e4gs, den egentliga anledningen, medan jag fokuserar mer p\u00e5 orden. Vassa, h\u00e5rda ord som g\u00e5r rakt in. Och jag sl\u00e4pper in dem, tar det personligt, b\u00f6rjar ifr\u00e5gas\u00e4tta mig sj\u00e4lv. Egentligen kanske personen med orden bara haft en d\u00e5lig dag, en dag full av\u00a0motg\u00e5ngar. N\u00e4sta dag kan samma konflikt\u00a0bem\u00f6tas annorlunda, det \u00e4r en bra dag\u00a0och h\u00e5rda ord ers\u00e4tts av tolerans, respekt och leenden.<\/p>\n<p>Egentligen \u00e4r det ganska sj\u00e4lvklart, n\u00e4r man t\u00e4nker efter. Den otrevliga kass\u00f6rskan p\u00e5 ICA, den sura gubben som f\u00e4ller bittra kommentarer, de dagar det ligger en tung, gr\u00e5 filt mellan dig och v\u00e4rlden. Allt handlar om vilken sinnesst\u00e4mning man befinner sig i. De dagar allt k\u00e4nns fantastiskt bra k\u00e4nner man sig os\u00e5rbar, de gr\u00e5 dagarna s\u00e4tter sig varenda liten kommentar under huden, allt tolkas negativt, varenda andetag k\u00e4nns tungt. Jag ska f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka bli b\u00e4ttre p\u00e5 att inte ta saker alltf\u00f6r personligt, utan ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka se bakom orden. F\u00f6r det \u00e4r som v\u00e4nnen s\u00e4ker &#8211; det \u00e4r aldrig bara ord.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/files\/2015\/01\/anais-see-as-we-are-300x190.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1351\" src=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/files\/2015\/01\/anais-see-as-we-are-300x190.jpg\" alt=\"anais-see-as-we-are-300x190\" width=\"300\" height=\"190\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8221;Det \u00e4r aldrig bara ord&#8221;, sa hon. &#8221;Jo, jag tror faktiskt det&#8221;, insisterade jag. &#8221;Tro mig, det \u00e4r aldrig bara ord.&#8221; Hennes blick satte punkt f\u00f6r fortsatta\u00a0inv\u00e4ndningar. &nbsp; Min v\u00e4n har en f\u00f6rm\u00e5ga att se bortom det som s\u00e4gs, den egentliga anledningen, medan jag fokuserar mer p\u00e5 orden. Vassa, h\u00e5rda ord som g\u00e5r rakt in. &#8230; <a title=\"Det \u00e4r aldrig bara ord\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/2015\/01\/22\/det-ar-aldrig-bara-ord\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om Det \u00e4r aldrig bara ord\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5785,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1350","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-okategoriserad"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1350","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5785"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1350"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1350\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/manuela\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}