{"id":4494,"date":"2013-09-04T21:17:07","date_gmt":"2013-09-04T19:17:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fames.se\/missjojo\/?p=4494"},"modified":"2013-09-04T21:17:07","modified_gmt":"2013-09-04T19:17:07","slug":"caged-bird","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/2013\/09\/04\/caged-bird\/","title":{"rendered":"Caged bird"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Normer. Jag HATAR de. Regler. Jag HATAR de ocks\u00e5. \u00c4r s\u00e5 tr\u00f6tt p\u00e5 att man m\u00e5ste bete sig p\u00e5 ett f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntat s\u00e4tt. \u00c4r s\u00e5 tr\u00f6tt p\u00e5 att leva i ett samh\u00e4lle med en massa regler, oskrivna s\u00e5v\u00e4l som skrivna. Jag kokar av ilska n\u00e4r jag hamnar i sammanhang d\u00e4r jag k\u00e4nner att min frihet begr\u00e4nsas. Jag kokar s\u00e5 jag n\u00e4stan inte vet vad jag ska g\u00f6ra av alla k\u00e4nslor.<\/p>\n<p>Men sen p\u00e5 n\u00e5got vis inser jag att jag \u00e4r <em>smartare<\/em> \u00e4n s\u00e5. F\u00f6r regler finns, men \u00e4ven valm\u00f6jligheter. Och normer \u00e4r just vad det \u00e4r, oskrivna regler. Mentala regler. Och hur jag p\u00e5verkas mentalt av de &#8211; ja de kan jag ocks\u00e5 p\u00e5verka. Jag kan v\u00e4lja att leva efter mina egna v\u00e4rderingar och faktiskt skita i andras. F\u00f6r vad \u00e4r det v\u00e4rsta som kan h\u00e4nda? Jag kan v\u00e4lja att anpassa mig och m\u00e5 d\u00e5ligt av det. Eller s\u00e5 kan jag ta initiativ, g\u00f6ra vad jag vill, leva s\u00e5 som jag k\u00e4nner att mitt hj\u00e4rta s\u00e4ger till mig och faktiskt k\u00e4nna v\u00e4lm\u00e5ende. Jag tror jag v\u00e4ljer det senare alternativet. Vad v\u00e4ljer ni?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Caged bird <a href=\"http:\/\/youtu.be\/AhI2yVCsiKY\"><strong><em>L\u00c4NK<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/09\/pink-bird-cage.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-4495\" alt=\"pink-bird-cage\" src=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/09\/pink-bird-cage.jpg\" width=\"648\" height=\"433\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/09\/pink-bird-cage.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/09\/pink-bird-cage-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/09\/pink-bird-cage-755x503.jpg 755w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 648px) 100vw, 648px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Normer. Jag HATAR de. Regler. Jag HATAR de ocks\u00e5. \u00c4r s\u00e5 tr\u00f6tt p\u00e5 att man m\u00e5ste bete sig p\u00e5 ett f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntat s\u00e4tt. \u00c4r s\u00e5 tr\u00f6tt p\u00e5 att leva i ett samh\u00e4lle med en massa regler, oskrivna s\u00e5v\u00e4l som skrivna. Jag kokar av ilska n\u00e4r jag hamnar i sammanhang d\u00e4r jag k\u00e4nner att min frihet begr\u00e4nsas. &#8230; <a title=\"Caged bird\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/2013\/09\/04\/caged-bird\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om Caged bird\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4920,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tankar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4920"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4494"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4494\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}