{"id":4986,"date":"2013-11-12T22:07:44","date_gmt":"2013-11-12T21:07:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fames.se\/missjojo\/?p=4986"},"modified":"2013-11-12T22:07:44","modified_gmt":"2013-11-12T21:07:44","slug":"dont-be-a-doormat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/2013\/11\/12\/dont-be-a-doormat\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t be a doormat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Om det \u00e4r en sak som jag har l\u00e4rt sen jag \u201dblev\u201d vuxen; \u00e4r de att man m\u00e5ste verkligen st\u00e5 upp f\u00f6r sig sj\u00e4lv. N\u00e4r jag var yngre var jag ganska naiv n\u00e4r det kom till vissa saker. Jag f\u00f6rutsatte att m\u00e4nniskor alltid f\u00f6rs\u00f6kte var godhj\u00e4rtade och r\u00e4ttvisa. Jag t\u00e4nkte faktiskt s\u00e5 ganska l\u00e4nge. Men det finns tyv\u00e4rr de m\u00e4nniskor som \u00e4r beredda att trampa p\u00e5 andra f\u00f6r sin egen vinnings skull, de som \u00e4r mer egoistiska \u00e4n andra, de som \u00e4r beredda att ta men men inte ge, och framf\u00f6r allt &#8211; de som kommer att utnyttja din godhet.<\/p>\n<p>Det \u00e4r inte meningen att l\u00e5ta bitter eller negativ p\u00e5 n\u00e5got vis, f\u00f6r i det stora hela anser jag att man SKA f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka se det b\u00e4sta i m\u00e4nniskor. Och man SKA vara god och trevlig mot andra. <em>Men man ska \u00e4ven vara god och trevlig mot sig sj\u00e4lv.<\/em> St\u00e5r man inte upp f\u00f6r sig sj\u00e4lv, s\u00e4tter gr\u00e4nser och visar vad man kr\u00e4ver &#8211; ja, d\u00e5 l\u00e4r man bli en d\u00f6rrmatta. S\u00e5 \u00e4r det. <strong>Och man beh\u00f6ver inte bli en cold hearted bitch f\u00f6r det &#8211; man kan s\u00e4tta gr\u00e4nser och st\u00e4lla krav med ett leende p\u00e5 l\u00e4pparna. D\u00e5 m\u00e5r man b\u00e4st sj\u00e4lv.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/11\/tumblr_mcrm38Y8ct1rh4ioao1_500.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4987\" alt=\"tumblr_mcrm38Y8ct1rh4ioao1_500\" src=\"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/11\/tumblr_mcrm38Y8ct1rh4ioao1_500.jpg\" width=\"401\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/11\/tumblr_mcrm38Y8ct1rh4ioao1_500.jpg 401w, https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/files\/2013\/11\/tumblr_mcrm38Y8ct1rh4ioao1_500-300x215.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 401px) 100vw, 401px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Om det \u00e4r en sak som jag har l\u00e4rt sen jag \u201dblev\u201d vuxen; \u00e4r de att man m\u00e5ste verkligen st\u00e5 upp f\u00f6r sig sj\u00e4lv. N\u00e4r jag var yngre var jag ganska naiv n\u00e4r det kom till vissa saker. Jag f\u00f6rutsatte att m\u00e4nniskor alltid f\u00f6rs\u00f6kte var godhj\u00e4rtade och r\u00e4ttvisa. Jag t\u00e4nkte faktiskt s\u00e5 ganska l\u00e4nge. Men &#8230; <a title=\"Don&#8217;t be a doormat\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/2013\/11\/12\/dont-be-a-doormat\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om Don&#8217;t be a doormat\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4920,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4986","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tankar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4986","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4920"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4986"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4986\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4986"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4986"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/missjojo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4986"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}