If you find out that one of your best friends partner is having an affair, what are you doing? Should you say something? How do you act? In somehow you are walking in a minefield here. Whatever you know, the thing you can be absolutely certain about is that you don’t know the whole story.
The big risk is that you could ruin your friendship and perhaps tell your friend something they don’t want to know. Or maybe they already know and choose to ignore it. Or maybe they’re having an affair as well 🙂 !
Saying from my own percpectives: ” How you treat others, I would like to be treaten…and so on…”
I’m thinking if on of my best friend, Laylan knew that my passione was having an affair, I would have been very disappointed if she had’nt told me about things she could possible know.
For example, things that people hear, is not coming from empty space, its always some truth behind roumours. Always! If you find its NOT – you should have a real serious talk if you find out the source.
My first step if I found out that my best friend Laylan’s husband was unfaithful would be: I would talk to her husband, and telling him that I’m in a position of knowing some ”not-nice-stuff” that’s going on. He has at least one chance to stop the affair. He has an option to tell his wife. Or he just move on with his lover.
I could feel clear and honest with myself, and I’m not happy that I’d to be the messanger but I need to make peace and something, I don’t want to harbour. What I’m telling him is that the cat is out the bag….he he he he….
Of course you DO, up followings 🙂 !
How would you react? Be quite like a mouse?
Note/ photo – did you know that in Italy is very common that men having an affair with a man…. Hmmmm, is that worser then catching up him with a woman? Maybe baby, you tell me…. Passione with Vladi 🙂 !
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