Don’t tell thin women to eat a cheeseburger ( its not healthy but anyway). Don’t tell fat women to put down the fork ( its not healthy but anyway). Don’t tell underweight men to bulk up ( its not healthy but anyway). Don’t tell women with facial hair to wax, don’t tell uncircumcised men they’re gross, don’t tell muscular women to go easy on the dead-lift, don’t tell dark-skinned women to bleach their vaginas ( is someone saying this? )
Don’t tell black women to relax their hair, don’t tell flat-chested women to get breast implants ( guess only stupid men saying this…) don’t tell “apple-shaped” women what’s “flattering,” don’t tell mothers to hide their stretch marks, and don’t tell people whose toes you don’t approve of not to wear flip-flops… ( when it comes to this one, I cant agree…). Sorry!
And so on, etc, mm , in every iteration until the mountains crumble to the sea. Basically, just go ahead and CEASE telling other human beings what they “should” and “shouldn’t” do with their bodies unless a) you are their doctor, or b) SOMEBODY GODDAMN ASKED YOU. ”
Just give compliments, as I did for this makeup-made-man in Venezia one night / or shut up, smile and dance !


