I like to help others as much I possible can do. But just imagine IF its too often I do things for people that I would like but they might not. Whats important to me, might not be whats most important to those Im/we trying to help.
Next time Im gonna simply ask, ” How can I be of help to you?” Then I have put the ball over to them, the problem is always that people, friends, family, strangers ar too afraid to speak out what they NEED, WANT, AND are willing to do, act and get. Over and over again, communication is the key for all sort of relationships, good or bad.
Are they walking in some such of a wondering land?
And the worse ones are the martyrs? ” I dont need help, BUT…after some months….. Vero, I feel that you were not there for me..bla blaaa bla ! ”
