To become more caring? Its a perfect time when your partner is ill. Often the attitude of caring will stimulate empathy, and empathy is the basis of loving care. Instead of pushing him out from bed, I moved from the bed last night. I cant stand listening to someone’s noices when Im sleeping. ” That was nice, Vero.” I always puch people that create noices in bed.
So, he just found me in the sofa this morning. Once one guy told me how to act if you wanted your partner to furfill your wishes. ” I always saying, that she IS the best of making meatballs…yeah all kind of food. Darling you are simple the best. I always tell her.”
As I remembered I told him: ” She couldnt even boil an egg, ” I said him. ” You see, Vero..thats the point. She cant boil an egg…but she is trying. Especially when Im telling her that she IS the best in cooking.”
If I want to NOT have a sick-obstinate-baby at home I need to be more caring ( and Im already is) towards my partner. Try it, you will be surprised what a difference this can make. Bring the medicine, make them a meal( ??), give them plenty of hugs. When we are more compassionate to ourselves, we are more compassionate to our partners.
Now he need to get strong again because on saturday starts our vacation. Fresh, free relaxed vacation in the Alps with my friend Colette – How much Im longing.
If your girlfriend/boyfriend has some of this disorders call a doctor or a psychiatrist.