{"id":12521,"date":"2013-08-28T14:52:32","date_gmt":"2013-08-28T12:52:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/?p=12521"},"modified":"2013-08-28T14:52:32","modified_gmt":"2013-08-28T12:52:32","slug":"reconnect-to-the-ones-you-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/2013\/08\/28\/reconnect-to-the-ones-you-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Reconnect to the ones you love."},"content":{"rendered":"

Using your brain as a smartnose<\/strong> when dealing with your partner can make your relation grow stronger and more loverable. As I love to listen and observe women, men, couples, my friends, unknown ppl, I realise many things quickie quickie. I try to absorb the best part of conversations that Im able to hear and\u00a0in many ways the BAD<\/strong> conversations is the BEST<\/strong> for me to learn NOT<\/strong> how to apply and follow.<\/p>\n

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And make sure you can be sometimes funny even IF<\/strong> you have been together 100years.<\/p>\n

So, what did I discover?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I often hear, that instead of asking the partner in a simple and direct way, it was builded with criticism, blaming and shaming in the sentence. That drives a wedge between a relation. An exempel could be;<\/p>\n

” YOU<\/strong> never spend time with me any more?” \u00a0Id like you to spend time with me – can we find a way to make that happen?” \u00a0Whish sentence is more normal and dont upset your partner?<\/p>\n

The first sentence always makes you a martyr( I hate martyries) and it doesnt get you what you want and creates a stressful environment for both of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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That face – the sour-unhappy-one can kill all love in alla senses. SMILE,<\/strong> at least you are in Mykonos, Vero \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

SO, transform all your requests from criticism.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

I have some friends that are still in this stadium that they have to prove themselves against me(????)! I have never understood this crazy serfdom(???). Anyway, do you regocnize this people that are always trying to prove that they are right and you are wrong?<\/p>\n

What to do?<\/strong> Do as the persian poet Rumi did; ” Out beyond ideas of right-doing and wrog-doing, there lieas a field. I will meet you there !<\/p>\n

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Sometimes your body language speaks by itself. Even if so, there are too many egoistic ppl around that doesnt understand how uncomfortable you can feel. They need first to find 2 path.<\/p>\n

Self-insight & Empathy<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Using your brain as a smartnose when dealing with your partner can make your relation grow stronger and more loverable. As I love to listen and observe women, men, couples, my friends, unknown ppl, I realise many things quickie quickie. I try to absorb the best part of conversations that Im able to hear and\u00a0in … L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":288,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12521","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-djupa-funderingar-deep-thoughts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12521","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/288"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12521"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12521\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12521"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12521"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12521"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}