{"id":13903,"date":"2013-11-12T14:14:29","date_gmt":"2013-11-12T12:14:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/?p=13903"},"modified":"2013-11-12T14:14:29","modified_gmt":"2013-11-12T12:14:29","slug":"the-word-no-scares-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/2013\/11\/12\/the-word-no-scares-us\/","title":{"rendered":"The word ”no” scares us."},"content":{"rendered":"

There are some situations in which I feel like Im treated as if I was a child…or an idiot. The first one is if I smoke. The second is when I talk more then the average woman doing. One always occur in Sweden. The other one in Italia. Guess which? It was not hard, wasnt it?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I smoke sometimes, which, as so many people in SWEDEN tell me ( including strangers), is really bad for me. I totally agree.<\/strong> Is it my choice or other peoples choice? How many cigarettes do I smoke per week? Its a private pleasure in the weekend and its not your problem, you know…..<\/p>\n

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Yes, sweetie people in Italia ( especially men…) I like to express my feelings, opinions and thoughts. I like to ask questions regarding things and Im very interested of other peoples thoughts. That helps me understand more about me and life. ” Thanks for your understanding ”<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I had many questions in the wineyard BUT<\/strong>\u00a0 Im always stopped by ”someone” to be more quiet….. So, guess what Im not quite \ud83d\ude42 I say simple ” no” to that thing nowadays.<\/p>\n

Anyway, thats quite enough about me; lets talk about you. How often do you go to Mcdonalds per week? How much transfat per meal is serving your stomach?<\/p>\n

Dont you know that being fat is really bad for you and that the economic burden of the healthy risk when it comes to obesity is twice that of smoking and alcohol?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you know if you never saying your opinion or are interested of other human being its gonna kill your soul. You wanna stay boring and bored?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Marylin at Bel Air Hotel 1953 – did you know that in Sweden some women can also have questions ”why” you are exercising 5 times per week(???) Maybe because we can or we want \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I can sound stroppy but smoking is my<\/em> choice – however idiotic you might think it is….also talking loud and a lot … And when I say ” no” its possibly the most loaded shortest word you can say to people. This little word tends to scare us witless.<\/p>\n

Some people sempre saying ” yes”<\/strong> to everything even if they thinking ”NOOOOO”<\/strong>. \u00a0Im talking as much as I want or smokes.<\/strong> So, why dont we say ” no”<\/strong> ? Because we think a lot of people wants to hear a ” YES ”<\/strong><\/p>\n

You live through other people or by your own desires?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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There are some situations in which I feel like Im treated as if I was a child…or an idiot. The first one is if I smoke. The second is when I talk more then the average woman doing. One always occur in Sweden. The other one in Italia. Guess which? It was not hard, wasnt … L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":288,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,10,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13903","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-djupa-funderingar-deep-thoughts","category-italien-italy-italia","category-sverige-sweden-svezia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13903","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/288"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13903"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13903\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogg.improveme.se\/veronicajonsson\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}